Today we’ve got a third party question 🙂 Siblings Prem and Rogue, your favorite relationship and intimacy coaches, hear from a girl whose best friend is being manipulated and, dare we say it, used (!) by her partner. He makes things her fault, he gets his way by making her change things around. Our correspondent is worried and so are we. Prem seems more negative than Rogue, but you’ll have to listen to find out why — and tell us whom you agree with. Can things change? How much is self-esteem tied up with this? Oh, and bonus: When Prem was manipulated regularly by a girlfriend! All this and more on episode 53. Subscribe and also, do rate us on the Itunes store> Every little star counts!